"It is better to aim
for the stars and miss, than to aim for a pile of manure and hit it."
-Anonymous
How often do we do just the opposite of this quote? I have always loved this
quote because I have to shoot high. I know no other way, otherwise I find
myself up to my eyeballs in stuff that frankly just gets sticky. How does that
saying go, "the air is better up there."
Let me illustrate.
I once owned a restaurant. Now let me say right off the bat, holding all the
liability for something of this nature was no easy task. I thought that just
because I had worked for many years in the restaurant industry, I was now an
expert in the matter. I have since learned, I have plenty to learn, and I am
able to keep my mind open to the idea of constant learning.
When I first opened my restaurant I had big goals. I hired 16 employees
right out of the gate and we opened the doors. I was a business owner now, and
I needed plenty of hired help to keep my business humming for all the customers
that would come through my door, right? Wrong! To make a long story short, it
only took about one payroll period for me to realize that I had over hired and
overstaffed my new restaurant. I quickly came to the decision that half of the
staff that I hired would need to be let go. The worst part was, with no fault
of their own, only the bad judgment of myself to blame, I had to let them go.
It took me a good 3 years to build up a healthy staff again, and I never
reached that mark of 16 employees before I sold that restaurant 5 years later.
What I want to point out here is not the fact that I did not reach a goal of
churning customers through my store in mass quantities, but I dreamed about it.
I did not reach my goal of staffing 16 people, ever while I owned my restaurant,
but I dreamed that one day I would. I even got to the point that I was going to
expand my business and move it into a 2400 sq ft building doubling the size of
it, but I never made the move. So, what then did I achieve? I grew revenue 400%
and sold the business for 450%. I did not achieve this by aiming for a pile of manure,
I achieved this by setting my sights much higher, maybe they were to high, but
now I can look back on my experience and see the successes much easier.
Each one of us has great potential. I think that too often we don't see that
potential in ourselves and we settle. We lower our sights and we land right in
the nice warm pile of manure, maybe we are more comfortable there, but let me
reiterate, "The air is better UP there!" Let's set our sights higher
and expect more from ourselves. One day we will be able to look back and
realize we achieved more than we ever thought possible.
Saw your quote and reminded me of the one I have on my wall.
ReplyDelete"The greater danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that our aim is too low and we reach it." Michelangelo
This is too often the truth with many merely limiting themselves of their vast potential...because a belief in a thing will make it happen.
While I agree with this quote, I do think that our idealism and reach should be combined with a decent dose of reality. That is, if you reach for the stars and only hit the moon, there is still room to celebrate: celebrate not ending up in the manure pile; celebrate having beat your personal best; celebrate the physical strength, mental acuity, and persistance that allowed you to reach the moon. Constantly aiming high, but hitting slightly less high should not bring down the full force of self-recrimination, disappointment, and paralyzing discouragement that we so often see amongst the hardest workers and highest achievers in today's society.
ReplyDeleteThis is not to say that we should aim lower. We should continually aspire to beat our best.